There are so many fears and dangers associated with finding out about an unfaithful spouse. Infidelity causes emotional strain, stress, and can even have physical effects on your body. Of course you want to know the truth, but investigating on your own can be risky and even dangerous to both your relationship and your health. Emotions can quickly turn into actions, which both victim and cheater will regret soon after. Read ICU Investigation’s suggestions below on how to safely uncover the truth.
1. Listen to the People Closest to You, and Most Importantly, Yourself
You know yourself best, and you may think you know your spouse better than they know themselves. When you feel something has gone awry in your current relationship, your own inhibitions may be your best bet for you to try to discover the person you thought your spouse was not.
Aside from your own inhibitions and suspicions, family members and true friends consciously want the best for you, and if they feel as though something is “off” in your relationship, you may want to pay close attention to what they are saying. Remember to keep your eyes and ears open to your surroundings.
2. Conducting Your Own Surveillance = DANGER
Following your cheating significant other is, without a doubt, the most dangerous method to uncover the truth. So many factors come into play, such as unsafe areas, accidents, totally engulfing your life while taking time away from children and family, and the most obvious, getting “burned.” If your spouse catches you following them, feelings could progress to rage, violence, and even produce deadly reactions. Remember that other people may be counting on you to be there for them, and putting yourself in danger to confirm your suspicions could deprive someone else of your presence.
3. Hire ICU Investigations to do the Dirty Work
To avoid these dangers altogether, hire ICU Investigations, specialists in surveillance and many other investigations including Internet Profile Reports, background checks, asset checks, premarital investigations, and more. We specialize in many subject areas, including infidelity, child abuse, child neglect, alcohol and drug abuse, physical abuse, cohabitation, theft, vandalism and more. The articles on our site, www.icucheaters.com, serve as great resources with ways to determine tell-tale signs of cheating, common lies your significant other may tell you, and we even highlight some high-profile cases.
How do you go about getting started? Call ICU Investigations today for a free consultation concerning your specific situation. We work with you to devise the best strategy for success. Our toll-free line for your confidential consultation is (800) 524-9755. You can also e-mail us at info@icuinvestigations.com.